The details from your spouse’s affair?

Wednesday, April 25, 2012






I promise this will be a short post; I just wanted to pose the question. 

Would you want to know all the details of your spouse’s affair? 
 It seems hard enough dealing with the infidelity, but knowing ALL the details seems pretty difficult. Some people need details, what positions, was there oral sex, where did the sexual encounters take place. I couldn’t handle the details; the details will be forever embedded in my mind. I’m such a visual person, knowing the details would be equivalent to me watching their sex tape. It seems like after an affair I would be numb and would lose interest in my husband. Besides, how do you get the images out of your head? The image would invade my every waking thought; I would be haunted by the images…..LOL. Despite the effort to stop the barrage of the sexual images, I probably would be powerless.

Would you want to know all the details? 



Marriage is a Marathon and we’re still running


 Bye for now,